After watching this interview, Not only in this case, Before reaching to any conclusion we need to know what is the main cause. We have right to speak doesn't mean we just analyze the case from our perception. These panel discussion between the documentary maker of India's daughter Leslee Udwin, Indian politician(BJP), social activist Kiran Bedi,Indian lawyer designated as a senior advocate and a politician (BJP) Pinky Anand, National secretary of BJP Vani Tripathi followed by Nirbhaya's parents should be watched by all who give any results or conclusion on case like this.
I'm a 18 years old girl from Nepal and I've reached to a
conclusion," Every people on this globe should change their mentality
positively to advocate on any case, to bring peace and not only give their
perception but analyze the situation from it's root level. No matter if they
are from High officials level, law makers, victims, culprits everyone is responsible
to bring change positively. This earth is our home, lets be a family, lets
bring peace."
Click the link below to watch :
BBC documentary Nirbhaya's Indian daughter
And I wrote an article nearly two months ago with the related case.
Khyati Shrestha, a 19 year old girl was raped, not
only once but again and again and at last she was murdered. The post-mortem report showed that she was
beaten to death by a rod. One of my friends Prashamsha gave a
presentation on Khyati’s case at the #PresentationStuffs program held at
Edushala. After her presentation, some of the audience cried, some held their
opinion. For a couple of days, some may remember Prashamsha’s words but then as
time passes these issues will fade.
Another international case 2012 (Delhi Gang rape) - a
23 year old girl was beaten and gang raped in a private bus in which she was
travelling with a male friend. There were six others in the bus, including the
driver, all of whom raped the girl and beat her friend. She died from the
injuries thirteen days later while undergoing emergency treatment in Singapore.
This issue generated national as well as international media coverage. The news
caused me to shiver.
These are just two
examples, where people forget humanity. There are lots and lots of cases like
these. Just a few days ago, my female friend was walking on a road early
morning around 6AM. As usual she was waiting for a microbus for her college but
a guy stopped his bike in front of her and told her that he would drop her. At
first she refused but when she found that he was her school friend, she got on
his bike. An innocent girl trusted a guy. Again, the next morning that guy
called her. She was scared, shivering and blank. When she was out of her house
for the college, there was that guy in a car. He came out of his car pulled the
hand of her. She was being harassed. At this point how can a girl trust or
believe that the guy was helping her as she was late for her college. She was
helpless. She could have slapped but she was afraid of this society, the
culture we are following.
A female’s body is
their prized possession and no man has got the right to touch it without her
permission. We live in a society where women are still undermined and
objectified and treated like trash. How can a woman ever be safe in such
societies? Harassment does not necessarily need to be physical. Trust me even
the stares of some men are so crude and absurd it makes you feel downright
vulnerable and unsafe.
With a little bit of
courage, I’m writing this just if it brings some changes in our culture where
we can find humanity inside everyone. Harming others, violence is always a
great issue and as I said earlier they fade like fog gradually. Don’t we want
our sisters to live a life? Aren’t they humans? Are they dolls? What if we set
a culture where everyone could speak about their right and no one judges them?
Isn’t this possible? Let’s not just be poor excuse for a human and have some
humanity!
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